But my experience has been that the phone is often the best tool to deal with an interminable back-and-forth with a client. The other day, I experienced a pingpong of emails with one of my usually low-maintenance clients. Little editorial tweaks on an article I'd written--nothing major, but each time required pulling up the file, making the change, and sending it over for re-approval.
I realized, after around Round 4, that we weren't getting to a resolution, so I called her up. It was the best decision I could have made: She was able to express herself much more quickly verbally than she was doing via email. And it also gave me a chance to schmooze her a little bit, ask her about how things are going, and get on her calendar for coffee in a few weeks.
A few closing thoughts:
- Part of successful communication is understanding which mode is best suited to a given situation.
- On the phone, you can pick up and deliver subtle cues that can't be conveyed in text.
- As a businessperson, you need to recognize that being a skilled writer doesn't mean that it's the only or best tool in the box.
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Note: While we're on the subject of client challenges, Planet Word has a two-entry series on "Selling Your Value" that's worth a read.
An earlier version of this was cross-posted at Freelance Writerville II [registration req'd].